Why my marriage lasted only two months – Anwulika Udanoh

BY ORJI ONYEKWERE

Anwulika Udanoh Nigeria Facebook sensation has opened up on why her well-celebrated marriage to her Canadian husband lasted only two months.

In June, the star and her hubby David Bobbit set the social media on fire with their society wedding but two months after; both parties have gone their separate ways over irreconcilable differences.

However, Anwulika has been on the receiving end of the criticism since the marriage crashed following her decision to opt out of the marriage because her husband had accused her for clubbing with her cousins and friends and didn’t return until 3 a.m.

According to David, when he insisted on knowing why she came home that late knowing her marital status, Anwulika got angry that his concern is an avenue to control her. Since that incident, David said Anwulika has been treating him with disrespect.

However, Anwulika has stoutly defended her decision to pull out of the marriage. In her response on her Facebook wall, Anwulika said; she chose not to work on the marriage again because she cannot be with a man that cannot stand by his word. Moreover, her happiness is more important to keep her sanity intact.

Her words, “Lollllll…..so, he told you people that I didn’t tell him that I will be going out with my cousin that night?

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“I choose NOT TO FIX anything because; I cannot deal with a man who cannot stand by his words. A man who will tell you “go and have fun”, then turn around to tell you that he said so because he doesn’t want to be seen as controlling, while being controlling. A man who sabotages his own marriage, forgetting all he spent to make it happen!

“I choose ME and MY HAPPINESS! I cannot trade my sanity for anything! I cannot leave the life I have built for myself here to go and deal with the newly discovered man that’s different from the one I married! I have seen why you people cannot leave a marriage that is not giving what you saw before going to it and resort to hide my ID here!

“The same reason most of you, despite saying that cheating is your deal breaker and you cannot do polygamy, still endure a cheating husband and his side chic that you know, and when he gets her pregnant and marries her as second wife, you will come to social media to play victim. Meanwhile, you ENABLED the bad behaviour all along!

“Hiding your INSECURITY until after marriage will CRUSH any man who meets a woman like me because, I am ENOUGH before you come to me! “