Girls, don’t let the older men around you mess you up!

Good morning, Mama

Thank you for all you do ma. I have good news ma. But before then, I want to brief you on my testimony ma. I never had a boyfriend, until I knew I was ready for marriage.

Along the line, I came across your timeline, this was many years ago, and I have since then been a huge fan of yours. Your ministry served as one of the channels of boldness to walk through that path.

Mama, to the glory of the Lord, I am done with school, done with NYSC, still a virgin, already fulfilling my purpose, and set for marriage, and the Lord granted me the man of my dreams. I will be getting married in September, this year, to the glory of God!

Sandra

Dearest people of God,

Please, please, please, let’s pay attention to the young girls around us! A 15-year-old called me from Edo State that she had no one to confide in and thought to call me to counsel her after reading my Saturday PUNCH article. That line as written is for WhatsApp only but I had a nudge in my spirit to pick up the call!

She went on to tell me how her 38-year-old neighbour had been telling her God said she’s his wife and has been wooing her with so much pressure. She sounded like she was already brainwashed and falling in love.

After telling her to steer clear of him, I told her to report to her parents only for her to tell me her parents live in Benue State. I can’t quite remember her reasons for not living with her parents at the moment but we all know because of the economic hardship and other reasons, too many girls are not living with their parents and neither are they being closely monitored.

An average girl not living with her parents is experiencing some form of abuse or the other. This girl was speaking quite incoherently, sounding exasperated and confused. I bet she lacks self-esteem and needs all the love in the world and that man could succeed in diverting the course of her destiny.

Who knows if he’s been giving her gifts no one has ever given her or buying her better food than she could ever get from her guardian and telling her she’s the most beautiful girl in the world, promising her heaven and earth? How won’t she fall for him? Then God forbids her from getting pregnant-her life suddenly takes a new turn.

Believe me, every single young girl out there is under undue pressure and confusion occasioned by a depraved world! You may be shocked to discover the guy who’s been harassing your young daughter.

 Girls! Girls!! Girls!!! no matter what your youthful exuberance and Zeeworld may make you feel you know about love, in your teens, you’re 95% unlikely to know who you should end up with in marriage as you’re yet to discover yourself fully. Stop looking for trouble. Be patient! Be patient!! Be patient!!! Please.

The world is getting crazier by the day and only the fittest can survive. I’ve often said your teens should be spent concentrating on laying a solid foundation for your future, academically, psychologically, spiritually, emotionally and so on! Don’t let any guy scatter your head with love.

You’d always lose out. Time has proven that girls who don’t have romantic relationships in their teens usually turn out far better than those who fall under the crush of heavy heartbreaks and strings of boyfriends! The world is highly competitive and if you don’t prepare well enough when you have all the energy, passion and vivid imagination, you will certainly end up on the lower rung of the ladder of life and get trampled by men!

Yes!  Start guarding your future and destiny instead of a foolish and unnecessary love affair and let the world’s most honourable and finest men rush you in future!

Dear All,

Every girl is an institution and the bedrock of the future society. We don’t want more street urchins, prostitutes and layabouts. We, our children and grandchildren, deserve a saner society in future although these are end times. Please chip in a word from time to time whenever you come across young girls, they need all the counsel they can get in a world where the female folk are victimised! May God send help to your children in Jesus’ mighty name and may God protect our girls from the devil itself!

Are you still engaging in premarital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.