Why I Don’t Have A Boyfriend – Ayra Starr

Afrobeats star Oyinkansola Sarah Aderibigbe, popularly known as Ayra Starr, has opened up on the reason she is still single.

The singer said she has very high standards of dating which would be hard for any man to meet.

The 22-year-old said she was grateful that she didn’t start dating before hitting stardom.

She also stated that she is very busy and has no time for herself, talkless of a man.

Ayra Starr shared this in an interview with Coco Jones for Rolling Stone’s Musicians on Musicians issue.

“I’m so happy I wasn’t really dating before I started music. I didn’t really know what I was missing. So now that I waited this long to date people, I have very high standards. If it’s gonna be hard to meet it, it’s gonna be bye-bye. But also, I don’t have time for myself, talk less of a boy,”she said.

Stop Overthinking What Others Think – Ayra Starr Talks About Ignoring Criticism

Meanwhile, Ayra Starr, has shared her perspective on handling criticism, revealing that she remains unaffected by negative feedback due to the broader struggles many people face.

In a candid conversation with Dose Society, the ‘Bloody Samaritan’ crooner expressed her belief that concerns over public opinion are misplaced.

She explained that the majority of critics are themselves struggling with personal challenges, such as financial difficulties and exhaustion.

Starr emphasized the futility of dwelling on others’ perceptions.

She said, “What matters less? I think opinions and people’s perceptions of you doesn’t [matter].

“Trust me, people are living their lives. Everybody is busy. People are hungry. Stop caring and stop thinking what people are thinking about you. People are hungry, tired. Life is hard. Just do you.”

She encouraged focusing on personal growth and self-confidence instead of worrying about external judgments, “Sometimes, you’re there overthinking, ‘what does this person think about me?’ Then, they’re just like, ‘what’s gonna happen today? Am I gonna make it home?’”

The singer advocated for self-acceptance and resilience, advising, “There’s a lot happening in the world, and if you spend your time thinking about what people think about you, you’re just gonna waste time. Do you, find yourself. Be confident in yourself. Don’t care about the outcome. Just do. Don’t be afraid to fail. Fail as many times as you want to but when you get it right, you’re going to be so proud of yourself.”